I feel bad for people who hold grudges, even after the person they hold the grudge against apologizes. it takes way more energy to dislike someone than to just be civil. and it's pretty bad for your karma too.
"Raise your daughters to shout, to scream, to hold their heads up high for being themselves before society tries to teach them how to silence themselves, how to wear shame like it is a second skin. Let them taste rebellion from the moment they are born and watch them become flames to start a revolution.” ~ Nikita Gill